Ego Integrity: 5/8 A matchless family life?


This is the fifth in a series of eight “old age” reflections on this period of my life. (The process and place of such reflections is described in the final paragraph.) It conjures up the words, pride, completeness, adversity, optimism, Buddhism, compassion, bonding. I hope you can see how they arise in this post. Family, … Continue reading Ego Integrity: 5/8 A matchless family life?

When we were young!


It's our 48th wedding anniversary today! Somehow it's prompted a day of reflection going back to 1969 when we first met, further prompted by our age, the state of our health, and the state of our country. But no politics in this post! After we opened our single anniversary card this morning (yes, one card … Continue reading When we were young!

How memories contribute to identity


Memories from a visit to the Blists Hill outdoor museum plus feelings of identity standing in a Cumbrian field have awakened even more intense memories that I am sure have a lot to do with my past 6 months family history research. Rolling all of these things together takes me back to when we had … Continue reading How memories contribute to identity

Three “cast iron” events that defined my immediate ancestors lives … and mine!


Between 1855 and the end of that century a number of significant events occurred that impacted on the lives of my ancestors, and directly on my own life too. They placed our lives within a context, a history of the times, something which I am finding to be the most interesting part of my family … Continue reading Three “cast iron” events that defined my immediate ancestors lives … and mine!

#52Ancestors: Do all Americans “love” Cornish pasties too?


Rest assured this IS an ancestry post, #52ancestors:love, related to my Cornish ancestors! But I begin with a question ..... what is England's favourite dish or food? Well, depending on how the question is worded, what year the question is asked, and from what regions the answers are drawn, the answers will swing wildly between … Continue reading #52Ancestors: Do all Americans “love” Cornish pasties too?